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Fathers and Families® improves the lives of children and strengthens society by protecting the child’s right to the love and care of both parents after separation or divorce. We seek better lives for children through family court reform that establishes equal rights and responsibilities for fathers and mothers.
 

Our Issues/What We're Doing

Fathers and Families promotes an ambitious legislative agenda and has helped pass family court reform legislation in over two dozen states. Click the tabs to view information about Fathers and Families’ current and recent legislative projects. To learn more about our legislative and other achievements, click here.

Tragically, after divorce or separation, one parent is often driven to the margins of his or her children's lives. Fathers and Families' central mission is to protect children’s right to the love and care of both parents. To help accomplish this, we:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Fathers and Families believes that children of divorce or separation need to be supported both emotionally and financially. We seek fair, reasonable child support guidelines and an end to rampant child support enforcement abuses. Our achievements in this area include:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Few family law cases are as heartbreaking as those involving Parental Alienation, where one parent has turned his or her children against the other parent, destroying the loving bonds the children and the target parent once enjoyed. PA is a common, well-documented phenomenon that is the subject of numerous studies and articles in peer-reviewed scholarly journals. Sadly, Fathers and Families receives thousands of heart-wrenching calls and letters from targeted parents. Both mothers and fathers can be perpetrators of Parental Alienation, but the true victims are always the children.

To help battle against Parental Alienation, Fathers and Families has:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Fathers and Families believes that alimony is sometimes appropriate, such as in cases where one spouse has significantly sacrificed his or her earning ability in order to care for children. However, family courts are rife with abuses and injustices in awarding alimony/spousal support and in dividing divorcing couples' assets.

To help protect family breadwinners and high earners, we:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Tens of thousands of men have been wrongly assigned paternity and are compelled by law to pay years of child support for children whom DNA tests have shown are not theirs. In many cases, the men have had little or no contact with the children they're required to support, and some had no idea they were "fathers" until their wages were garnished for child support. To help solve this problem, Fathers and Families:

  • Helped Introduce CA SB 375 to Help Defrauded Fathers
  • Helped Introduce CA SB 377 to Protect Minors from Paternity Fraud 
  • Helped pass AB 252 and SB 1333 to allow CA child support obligors to use DNA evidence to set aside false paternity judgments

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Fathers and Families believes that all victims of abuse deserve aid and protection from our family court system. Unfortunately, as prominent members of the Family Law Executive Committee of the State Bar of California and many family law professionals have noted, false claims of abuse are frequently and effectively used as custody maneuvers in divorces by unscrupulous attorneys and litigants. To help combat this problem, Fathers and Families:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Fathers and Families believes that all litigants should be treated fairly in family court, regardless of gender. We also oppose the adversarial nature of the family court system and support Collaborative Law and other ways to reduce unnecessary conflict and litigation. To these ends, Father and Families:

To learn more about Fathers and Families' achievements in this area, please see our Accomplishments.

Boy Taken by Norwegian Child Welfare to be Sent to Uncle in India

January 27th, 2012 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

The Indian couple whose child was taken by Norwegian child welfare authorities may finally get him back.  But they’ll have to go back to India to do it.  Read the latest here (Hindustan Times, 1/25/12).

The case has … Read the rest

Media Search in Vain for Wealthy Child Support Debtors

January 27th, 2012 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

Australia’s Courier Mail is pleased to promote the myth of the deadbeat parent.  Here’s its latest effort (Courier Mail, 1/27/12).

It’s a staple of the U.S. news media that, although the term “deadbeat dad” has fallen out of … Read the rest

Family Courts’ ‘Cottage Industry’ Skirts Law to Separate Children from Fathers

January 26th, 2012 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

Aptly entitled “Ripped Apart,” Nina Shapiro’s article describes not only the plain anti-father bias of King County, Washington’s family courts, but as well the main excuse for it – claims by mothers of domestic violence.  Here’s Shapiro’s article again (

Read the rest

VAWA Committee Vote Tomorrow; Call Members and Let Them Know Your Thoughts

January 25th, 2012 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

The following is a message from Stop Abusive and Violent Environments (S.A.V.E.).  Allegations of domestic violence are one of the chief ways in which children are separated from their fathers.

The Senate Judiciary Committee is expected to vote on the … Read the rest

In King County, Dads’ ‘Day in Court’ Lasts Five Minutes

January 25th, 2012 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

Family courts in King County, Washington are so busy and the rules of evidence on claims of domestic violence so lax, that the wholesale removal of fathers from children’s lives is inevitable.  Here again is Nina Shapiro’s fine piece (… Read the rest

Bill Hudson, Goldie Hawn’s Ex, Pens Book on Parental Alienation, Praises Fathers and Families

January 24th, 2012 by FAF Staff

Bill Hudson, father of Kate and Oliver Hudson and the ex-husband of Goldie Hawn, has authored a new book, Two Versions, in which he claims he was alienated from his children by his ex-wife. According to Amazon.com:

Bill Hudson … Read the rest

Victory! F & F Helps Win Child Custody Case in CO Supreme Court

January 24th, 2012 by Glenn Sacks, MA, Executive Director

There are fathers who have learned how to work the system against mothers, and use it to their unjust advantage. When this occurs, Fathers and Families is on the side of the mother whose loving bonds with her children are being endangered. In Re the Marriage of Brandt, decided this week by the Colorado Supreme Court, is such a case. Fathers and Families has been assisting Captain Christine Brandt of the U.S. Army Nurse Corps to regain custody of her 12-year-old son.

Researchers Seeking Participants for National Institutes of Health-Funded Study on Male DV Victims

January 23rd, 2012 by Glenn Sacks, MA, Executive Director

Professors Denise Hines, Ph.D. and Emily M. Douglas, Ph.D. are conducting a new National Institutes of Health-funded study on men who have experienced female partner aggression, and have asked Fathers and Families to post the following recruitment statement:

Seattle Weekly Article Exposes How Spurious DV Allegations Are Used to Separate Dads from Their Kids

January 23rd, 2012 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

The new article Seattle Weekly article “Ripped Apart: Divorced dads, domestic violence, and the systemic bias against men in King County family court” (1/18/12) details the way allegations of domestic violence are routinely used to separate fathers from children in King County (Seattle) family courts.

Mirkarimi DV Case Shows All the Ways We Get DV Wrong

January 22nd, 2012 by Robert Franklin, Esq.

A domestic violence case is unfolding in San Francisco that can teach us almost every lesson we need to know about what’s wrong with the way we deal with DV in this country.  San Francisco sheriff Ross Mirkarimi’s DV case … Read the rest